NATIONAL CHARTERSCHOOLS WEEK:Here are some ideas tocelebrate this week, April 30-May 4. You can view more atwww.edreform.com.Consider having a theme foreach day and host an openhouse at the end of the week. TEACHERSAPPRECIATION DAY: Host a breakfast orlunch. Have students readessays to honorteachers. STUDENTAPPRECIATION DAY: Distribute bookmarksor pencils, or specialfood treats. Hold a special schoolassembly with enter-tainment, such asa magician. PARENTAPPRECIATION DAYAsk students to writethank you notes toparent volunteers Run a special notice ofthanks in school paperor web site. OPEN HOUSE Invite local leaders,the mayor, etc. to tourthe school while yourchoir or band plays.Display student workaround school, espe-cially projects thatshow why thestudents love theircharter school. The end of theschool yearalways signalsbig change. New summertimeroutines, as well as plans toready kids for new grades inthe fall can preoccupy the bestof us. If that end-of-the-yearhustle also includes plans forswitching your child to a newschool because of a move to anew town, a transition frompublic to private school, orsome other motivating lifeevent, the change can bedramatic. Making your childsschool switch a breezedepends heavily on how wellthe new school is suited toyour child. No longer is itsufficient to simply send yourchild to the school shesassigned to, based on whereyou live. If youre in thatposition, you need to inquireabout more than whatprograms are available. Youneed to determine if theres afit between your child and theschool. There are some goodquestions you can ask to helpyou determine this amongthem, past issues of ParentPower!, available on ourwebsite atwww.edreform.com.There is plenty to thinkabout: friends, routines,curriculums, maybe evennew family circumstances.Most kids find ways to cope,but experts warn that thosewho do best when switchingschools are those who arebest prepared. What can parents do?There is no way to guaranteea transition. But there aresteps parents can take to helpa child reach her academicpotential at the new school,and avoid feeling as thoughshes a tourist in a foreignWhen Your Child Changes Schoolsland. Experts say if the childfeels comfortable with thesocial transition the academicadjustment will likely besmooth as well. Be positive: Examineyour own attitude: How wellprepared are you for thechange? Dr. Alex Thomas,chair of the educationalpsychology department atMiami University in Oxford,Ohio, says that parents set thetone for kids. What kind ofspin is the parent putting onthe circumstances? he asks. Children change schoolsfor many reasons. If thechange is precipitated by afamily crisis, such as divorceor financial problems, parentshave to step back from theirown burdens and focus onthe child, he says. Even chil-dren changing schools forpositive reasons say amove to a better district need extra attention. Kids likeroutines, Dr. Thomas adds.When they are put out oftheir routine they becomedisoriented. Know your childscharacter and gauge what itwill take for him to adjust.Help your child knowwhat to expect: Visit theschool before your child starts.Walk the halls. Check out yourchilds classroom, the cafeteria,gym, nurses office, even thebathrooms. Look aroundoutside including recreationareas and entrance doors. Talkabout transportation. If shewill take a bus, visit the busstop. Drive the route to schooltogether. Try to quickly set adaily routine and talk itthrough with your child. Meet the teacher andprincipal: Establishing a rela-tionship with the staff beforeschool starts creates a senseof belonging for your childand for you. It could make iteasier to discuss futureconcerns. Let the teacherknow if your child haslearning or health issues, or ifchanges in her life could affecther schoolwork. Ask for asummer reading list and aclassroom-supply list. Havingcommon reference points andthe right equipment will helpyour child fit in. Introduceyourself to the office staff,may provide you with aschool directory, the names ofparent group members, orother useful materials. Meet other parentsand classmates: Manyschools provide specialservices for new families,such as buddy programsthat team you with a hostfamily, or that pair yourchild with an establishedstudent at the school. Lookfor neighborhood kids whoattend the school, or getnames from the school andset up play dates beforeschool starts. First encoun-ters could be awkward,however, and you may wantto plan some activities withcrafts, cooking or games. Get involved: Researchshows that children do betterin school when their parentsare involved in their educa-tion. Attendance andachievement go up, regard-less of economics, race orculture. Join the schoolsparent group, volunteer forfield trips or holiday parties,attend open houses. Someschools use classroom orrecess volunteers. These areall good ways to connectwith other parents, monitorthe curriculum, stay on topof issues affecting the school,and keep tabs on how yourchild is progressing.