Most parents willsometime in the life oftheir child tell themyou can do anything!At The Hyde School inBath, Maine, theleaders really mean it.The Hyde School, estab-lished in 1966 as an alter-native model for childrenneeding to get their acttogether, has a unique perspective:Attitude matters more than aptitude,effort more than ability, and char-acter more than talent. What kind of school does thismission produce? One in whichcliques and bullying are minimal.Behavior and discipline problems arequickly resolved. Hyde has fostereda culture that focuses on pushingeach student to be his or her bestand the results are encouraging.As a teenager, Malcolm Gauld,was labeled as a bright kid whodidnt apply himself. Hanging outwith the wrong crowd, he was moreinterested in sports and socializingthan academics. His father, JosephGauld, founded the Hyde School inhopes of reaching out to students whocould be motivated in an environmentwhere effort really did count.Today, Malcolm Gauld, 47, ispresident and chief executive officerof The Hyde Schools. And students athis school do get a grade for attitudeand effort, as well as achievement. Developing character is central tothe schools mission. Its inspired,not imparted. You dont pour it in,Gauld says. Character is a muscle-you use it or you lose it. The schoolemphasizes intellectual, physical,spiritual, emotional and social devel-opment. Here, values of courage,integrity, leadership, curiosity andconcern are core.But rather than putting up a setof virtues on the wall and tellingstudents to pay heed, at Hyde thekids are put in situations where theymust rely on those virtues. Forexample, courage and teamwork arelearned through activities, such as aropes course. Also, all students are requiredto participate in sports and theperforming arts. Kids are challengedby activities they may not havechosen. This creates a culture ofsupport.A clique is being surrounded bypeople with the same abilities andinterests, Gauld says. Kids hererealize they dont need to be in aclique. Everybody at some point isexposed to an area where they areconfident. They dont need to putup airs.For instance, every student hasto sing and audition for theatre. Noone wants to be laughed off stage and they arent because eachstudent knows he will have his turn.When the whole school is in thetheatre and you think Im going tobe next there is an incredible feelingof support, says Gauld. If a kidstrains and misses, he gets moreapplause than those who stay intheir comfort zone.As for discipline, Hyde isntwithout problems. Many kids arehere because of behavior problemsin the past. But when somethinghappens, the focus isnt on theinfraction, but rather the studentsattitude. We look at the spirit of thelaw, not the letter of the law, Gauldsays. Truth over harmony.Principles over rules.The school is strict on kids whocontinually violate the schools ethics(not rules). The response is subjec-tive, based on the students attitude.Students may be assigned to workon the grounds to rake leaves orshovel snow until they show someimprovement. Students are expectedto earn their breaks and those withdiscipline problems may spend aThanksgiving break with staff at awilderness outpost.What most schools do is allowthe kid to be a burden to others,Gauld says. What we are saying isthat if you have a bad attitude, youshould only be a burden to yourselfand not pollute the rest.Finally, the Hyde School believesthat parents are vital to the successof students. Parents are required toattend parents weekend and workweekends. At these events, parents,too, are challenged to stretch them-selves, for example, by performingskits just as their kids must do. Theyalso stay involved with monthlyregional meetings and are expectedto attend family workshops.Gauld says the idea of empha-sizing character may be in voguetoday, but at Hyde it has alwaysbeen core. And because of that, theschool has created a culture whereproblems like bullying really dontexist. Gauld says the uniqueAmerican spirit calls for an educa-tional system designed to fit withthat spirit, Gauld says.We see character as a means.We have a destiny or purpose in lifeand we need character to connectwith our destiny, he says. (The first Hyde School wasestablished in 1966 as an alterna-tive model for students. The flagshipschool in Bath has 230 students ingrades 9-12, most of who live oncampus. Another boarding schoolin Woodstock, Connecticut has 260students. Hyde also runs a magnethigh school in New Haven,Connecticut and a charter schoolin Washington, D.C.)Focus on character developmentminimizes school problems